This Is What Nobody Ever Asks You (But You Should Know The Answer)

This Is What Nobody Ever Asks You (But You Should Know The Answer)

Do you know this strange feeling, when you feel like something is missing in life but you cannot really grasp what it actually is? There might be dissatisfaction, frustration or just the feeling that you cannot really settle and be at ease. These coaching questions might change your life profoundly.

Several times in life we come across certain blockages. They might be results of stressful events that happened to us or they just slowly creep in and develop through unhealthy patterns – without us even noticing. A very first step to solve such a blockage is: Awareness.

There are profound questions used in life coaching that have helped many people to find their blind spots. This way they could finally initiate a promising turn and transform their lives. So to help you become better at your job, have a healthier relationship or feel more balanced and grounded, we have compiled 31 questions from life coaching.

From time to time, we just need to take a moment and check-in to see what’s happening in our lives. Coaching questions like these are absolutely worth asking ourselves. They help us to keep tuned to what we need to be the happiest version of ourselves.

Make sure you are still leading the life you actually want to.

I hope there are one or more questions that pushed the right button and will open up a new world for you just when you need it. Looking forward to hear your results or thoughts on this!


How To Combat Procrastination And Get Back In Control

How To Combat Procrastination And Get Back In Control

Do you have difficulties meeting appointments? Or stress about deadlines or just can’t get it done? Do you feel you could do better if you just could get back in control? Would you like to stand above things and still enjoy (student) life? Then this article is for you.

Beat Procrastination: ‘Prevent Stress and Save Energy!’

Research studies found that students report to smoke more, consume more coffee and junk while skipping sports and cleaning sessions in examination period. It’s not surprising that stress is our biggest enemy when it comes to improving self-control, in particular procrastination. According to the Resource Model of Self-control, managing stress requires lots of energy and depletes our limited regulatory resources. Therefore, it is essential to prevent stress escalation. We collected some science-proved, useful tips that will empower you to improve self-control and be at your best.

Let’s get organized: ditch procrastination and save some energy for the good stuff!

 1. Scheduled and Prioritized To-Do-List

Make use of a to-do-list which includes every single detail you have to do. It will work out much better if you include a study schedule here as well. That is, make sure you also plan in what you have to learn and not just that you have to learn. You will want to prioritize what’s urgent and what’s important on it. Then write everything down in your agenda and schedule exactly when you plan to do what. This way you won’t have to make any decisions during the day on what best to do when. This will save you lots of energy that you will need for the studying itself and procrastination will be past.

 2. Earlier Deadlines

We all know the moment when you tell yourself that if you would have just one more day it would be all perfect. Simply put deadlines earlier for yourself, write them in your agenda and take them seriously even if it seems silly to you. It will give you that extra time. Plus: You will feel ridiculously heroic when celebrating your paper while everyone else is still stressed out.

 3. Create an If-Then Mantra!

Research found that as an effective strategy using so-called implementation intentions is very helpful. Here are examples of how to formulate good ones:
‘If I have finished my dinner, I will do 30 minutes of research.’ or Every time before I go to sleep I have a look at my schedule for the next days. ‘
When making up your own If-Then mantra make sure you cover the when/where and how in order to make your mantra work. After a while you will automatically do it without requiring any energy to remember it and get more efficient.

Bye, bye procrastination!

With these three simple tips you will be on top of things, won’t miss any meeting or deadline again and will have a much more enjoyable, stress-free study or work time.


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